Posted by: lowrider | 2009-05-19

break up

I clearly have never fallen in love before. Because this guy I was seeing right after my divorce has dumped me and I need to move on and get him out of my head and my heart.

How on EARTH does a person get over this. Oh MY LIFE!!! I never want to fall in love for real again - it hurts more than it' s worth!!!

Bottom line, I need to concentrate and move on, and focus on my job and I am for the first time experiencing real trouble doing that. It' s insane!

Any advice from previously heartbroken people please? How long is the recovery process supposed to take? I do not have patience to feel all sad and loopy... But I do and that' s the saddest part and it really hurts. I' ve never hurt like this, not even when my marriage broke up! Obviously this guy was different. Dammit!!

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Love doesn't necessarily hurt, but so many of these rebound relationships end in hurt. Do no start a relationship, however promising it may look at the time, while still raw from the loss of a previous relationship. A counsellor may be able to help you do this more effectively and efficiently. It's no that this guy was so diffeent --- don't exaggerate his specialness --- he got to you when you were especially vulnerable

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