Our expert says:
Why is he so desperate to have a child ? This isn't commonly a major preoccupation of young men, and if he is to be a fit partner for you and a fit father, he should give major priority to your own feelings and wishes, and to his ability to be a great father to the child, both emotionally and financially. Is he simply concerned about proving that he can actually father a child ? That would suggest major self-esteem problems, and a very unrealistic set of ideas about what makes a man a man.
I like Maria's idea of him volunteering at a children'\s home or charity, to get to know children and see if he actually likes working with them. Otherwise he may be more interested in p-roving his fertility and in being a competent real father.
And why, after a very long period of 8 years of dating, is he not interested in marriage before producing a child ?
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