Our expert says:
What on earth do you find to love in someone who behaves like this ? He hits you, chokes you, and behaves dangerously when drunk. Alcohol never abuses people - people abuse people, sometimes when they've been abusing alcohol, too. He criticises you, insults you, accuss you of infidelity, tries to control you ( when he can't even control himself ); he's pathologically jealous. No, there is no hope whatsoever for such a person to change - they don't see anything wrong with themselves or what they do, and don't want to change.
COnsult a group who helps abused women, and plan a safe exit from this situation, and save your love for someone who deserves it. Being sweet occasionally, between the episodes of abuse, is not good enough.
And, although some of the readers chose to squabble unhelpfully between themselves, you may well benefit from seeing a counsellor to enhance your self-esteem and self-respect, to recognize that you deserve to be treated far better than this
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