Our expert says:
I hpe you're right in your interpretation of his ex's motives. Everyone must remember that the child is the one totally innocent person in this, and the child's interests must be paramount. Instant bonding, except ( and even then not always ) between birth mother and her own birth child, is uncommon, and not necessary. Why should you feel instant love for a child, however innocent, who represents his previous relatonship, and who you don'tnow yet. Give it time.
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