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Posted by: Lindie | 2011/04/18

boyfriend caught watching porn at office

Please help
I caught my boyfriend watching porn at work (work together) and got very defensive when i confronted him and told me that i am the one with the problem!!!!

Please help!!!!

Thanks!!!!!!!

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A great many people choose to watch porn when they have the opportunity, inluding more women than you might imagine. The office isn't a great place to choose to do so. When discovered, its probably usual for the person to feel embarrassed and defensive, and to insist that it's you that's wrong to get so upset about it. Watching porn doesn't indicate that there is anything necessarily wrong with the individual or the relatonship. But some couples counselling might help sort out your relationship and your degree of upset suggests there might be other problem areas between you two, worth working on.
Don't rush to jump him as some other readers suggest far too promptly - if you have enjoyed the relationship so far, don't give up before you understand better what is happening.

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Posted by: @Anne | 2011/04/19

Get off your high horse Anne your probably one of those women that only know missionary and give it once a month. Porn can be enjoyed by moth boyfriend and girlfriend. Maybe Lindie isnt very sexually active with her boyfriend which is why he might be watching porn.

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Posted by: Anne | 2011/04/19

Yes, that is the unfortunate thing that it is there to be watched. That is why you men are the way you are, because you dont find anything morally offensive. Dump his sorry-|-Nene, he does not deserve you

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Posted by: Gogo | 2011/04/19

whats bad, nothing wrong its there to be watched.

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/04/19

A great many people choose to watch porn when they have the opportunity, inluding more women than you might imagine. The office isn't a great place to choose to do so. When discovered, its probably usual for the person to feel embarrassed and defensive, and to insist that it's you that's wrong to get so upset about it. Watching porn doesn't indicate that there is anything necessarily wrong with the individual or the relatonship. But some couples counselling might help sort out your relationship and your degree of upset suggests there might be other problem areas between you two, worth working on.
Don't rush to jump him as some other readers suggest far too promptly - if you have enjoyed the relationship so far, don't give up before you understand better what is happening.

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Posted by: Anne | 2011/04/18

He is worth dumping. You dont say much about him, but if you get blamed for his wrong doing while he is just your boyfriend, he is going to make your life hell if you get more serious.

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