Our expert says:
Sounds rather as though they are setting up situations to challenge you to take sides, to choose between them ?
I like Caro's point - if this is just a sort of game between them which both enjoy and which does no harm, why does it upset you so much ? If there is more to it, then one needs to decide what to do about it. Talk calmly with your son, saying you notice this, and to you it just seems irritating - what does it mean for him ? Does he find it pleasant or disturbing ? If he dries sometimes, he might be finding it distressing, and you will want to understand this.
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