Our expert says:
No, not at all --- of course he should be enormously understandin and sympathetic when here is any reason why you don't feel like having sex. I wasn't saying that anything is your FAULT, but that if you are as depressed as you sound, the solution must include assessment and treatment for your depression --- and then, when you are more bouyant and sturdy, maybe involve him in some couples counselling to sort out his failure to respond helpfully when you had this predicament.
Did he hide from you the fact that there was an older woman AND a young girl working there, or did the situation change between his telling you and your finding out how things were ? Anyhow, this addition sounds like couples counselling early on would be a good idea, as well as checking up on the possibility of the Depression
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