Our expert says:
Dear Confused Dude
It is a very difficult decision but if you don't really feel that the current girlfriend is "the one" and you have fights all the time, it is not going to get better when you marry. Sometimes a person may be ideal marriage material but the "spark" just isn't there, and 10 years down the line you may feel that you missed out. On the other hand, arranged marriages can also turn out to be great marriages, I think it depends on your mind set. Do yourself a favour and go and see a marriage counsellor at FAMSA to help you get clarity. See http://www.famsa.org.za/choosing.asp
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