Our expert says:
Its hard to guess about your boss - you surely don't have the total financial picture of the whole company, so as to know not only what is in the bank, but what debts need to be paid, and so on ? Financial appreciation is obviously very welcome, but at a time when the economy is in a mess world-wide, and many companies are closing, or laying off good workers, its hard to be certain that whether they can afford to give you a rise or not. DO you know whether any others have received a raise ?
It must feel very frustrating not to have a raise to make it easier to get married, but after a 6 year engagement, there must have been other reasons for earlier postponements.
I don't at all understand your boss saying that your marriage is doomed. How could he know that and why would he say that ?
Have you sat down with him and had a calm discussion of all this, asking him to help you understand the situation ?
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