Our expert says:
Unfortunately sexual behaviour with a man or a woman may be considered to be a betrayal. Having worked with many people who have had betrayals, her response is pretty limited; so she is not having as big a response as many people! Clearly it still affects her and this is not unreasonable. Don't tar your whole sex life with the same brush, if BJs are out for now whilst she adjusts to the information you gave, that's just one aspect of your sexual relationship. Try to understand her response; you may need to reassure her on more than one occasion. If she wants to return to performing oral sex on you, she probably will in time.
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