Our expert says:
How essential is it to "handle her " TO what extent is she avoidable ? People who make bad ( from heir point of view ) choices in their lives, can be very inclined to blame others, or to find fault with others ( to help them feel that others are even worse off than them ).
From the sound of it she may well, indeed, feel insecure and bored.
But this also sounds like Pathological Jealousy, as its usually absurd to suspect her husband of an affair with his sister, or at the gym at 6 am. Its not necessaily to the benefit of the children to stay around too unhappy a marriage, rather than with at leas a contented and less hard-working father. She could go back to work. Any maintenance court would have to look at how much she DID earn, and could still earn, and would not want to support her in bitter idleness.
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