Our expert says:
I wonder why you make this guy so important in your life, and pay so much attention to him ? Sexual orientation is present from birth, though showing itself later ; and one is not "turned" or shaped by experiences such as you describe. He could be bisexual but upset because your other friend's advances were sneaky and not open, and maybe because he just isn't turned on by the guy ? Nobody enjoys and welcomes sexual advances from everyone in the world. Why do you still spend time with this guy at all ? If his descriptions of his sxual encounters upset you, tell him to stop talking about that, because it upsets you. If indeed he used you, why on earth would you feel you need to be pleasant to him ? If he used you, kick him out of your life.
Move him out of your life, and move on with your own life.
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