Our expert says:
Obviously you will want to be sure of what will happen if and when your company is bought out by the other, and not to resign or declare your intention of resigning, too soon - its possible they might down-size and offer redundancy payments much better than you'd get by simply resigning.
It makes sense to me that, as a more experienced older person, you'd want to think thouh what mnight happen if the marriage didn't work out - these things hapen, and one doesn't want to be caught totally unawares.
It does sound as though yo need far more discussion between you, if, for instance, you don't know where you will both live after the wedding, and whether indeed he might be thinking of moing to where you stay - maybe the job market or situation is different for him or for you.
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