Our expert says:
Sounds like the move would be excellent in many ways. The anxiety you fear is about changing the habit of working with this one place and the other habits associated with it. Sounds like it'd be more of s risk to stay where you are than to make the move.
You're absolutely right NOT to write a snotty letter as you leave - it would achieve nothing useful for you. And writing a really nice letter would disappoint some and annoy the hell out of the bully, especially if you sweetly emphasized how marvellous it was to work there, ESPECIALLY in the good old days ( before the Bully arrived ). And should you ever need any form of reference from them in the future, this makes it more likely to be friendly.
I'm sure you'll thrive in the new position !
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