Our expert says:
Sex should be spontaneous and both partners have a right to initiate sex. This may at first be daunting for him that a woman has such a right - to begin with, maybe let both of you hold a joker card over the weekend which allows the partner holding it to sex-on-demand in the position of their choice. In this way, he will come to acknowledge that you have sexual needs (on your own terms) and that these needs are not threatening nor will it threaten his masculinity - by starting with this game, he may come to realise that sex can be good (even great) no matter who initiates it.
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