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Posted by: Natasha | 2011/04/21

Benodig hulp asseblief..........

Hallo dokter,

Ek het asb ''n verwysing nodig na ''n huweliksberader in Johannesburg/Oosrand-areas. Die persoon moet asb Afrikaans wees, ek kan nie my self behoorlik oordra in Engels nie.

Dan wil ek dokter solank raad vra. Ek en my man verstaan mekaar nie, die misverstande word al meer en meer en dit maak seer. Kan ''n mens op ''n punt kom wat ''n mens mekaar beter verstaan??

Die volgende punt is dat my man nie ''n emosionele persoon is wat praat met my nie, en aan die anderkant is ek weer uiters emosioneel. Hy voel hy kan nie meer met my emosies saamleef nie en ek voel ek kan nie meer met die stiltes saamleef nie...........voel uiters moedeloos vanoggend.

Dankie.

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Our expert says:
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Do call FAMSa, ( number in phone book ) which is a national organization and can help you choose from a number of good ounsellors. Tey will know information about where they work, the languages they use, and approximate charges.
It IS possible to learn to understand each other better and to communicate effectively. Where there are differences such as emotions versus colder calm, you can learn to negotiate a midway that better suits each of you

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Our users say:
Posted by: Anon | 2011/04/21

Marie-Heleen Van Zyl in Boksburg is baie goed. Sy doen Imago terapie. wat julle sal leer hoe om met mekaar te praat, en te luister. Daar is ook n " mirroring"  gedeelte. Ek weet nie wat is dit in Afrikaans nie, maar dis basies, as jy praat, moet hy se presies wat jy gese het wat dan seker maak dat hy jou verstaan het.

Ek wens julle alle sterkte toe.

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Posted by: Maria | 2011/04/21

Berading is ''n goeie plan. Kontak FAMSA, hulle kan jou verwys.

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/04/21

Do call FAMSa, ( number in phone book ) which is a national organization and can help you choose from a number of good ounsellors. Tey will know information about where they work, the languages they use, and approximate charges.
It IS possible to learn to understand each other better and to communicate effectively. Where there are differences such as emotions versus colder calm, you can learn to negotiate a midway that better suits each of you

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