Our expert says:
What people do Before they start a reationship isn't usually relevant. But what they do afterwards, is. If his relationship with the old gf is over, they have no need to talk at all, let alone weekly. Hurting him would be a really bad idea. WHat he is doin is indeed suspicious, but hardly grounds for punishment, and you need to be much more sure of what is going on. And then hurting him in a physical sense, or by yourself cheating, is a foolish if tempting idea, and usually harms you too.
If you are saying that he has lied to you or misled you previously, maybe you need to decide whether you want to continue with this marriage. If so, then insist that he see a marriage counsellor with you. If not, consult a lawyer, and protect your rights
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