Our expert says:
This is a very recent and indeed upsetting experience - anyone would be badly disturbed by it. But with time this will fade or rather merge with happier memories of all that was great about your mother. Continue to work with your psychologist, and don't give up because the benefits are not immediate or obvious very early on.
Grief i hard work, and the work needs to be done. Only if the relationship was superficial and trivial is there no major work to be done.
were there perhaps problems in your relationship with your mother, which are bothering you ? I ask because people don't usually expect to be haunted in an unpleasant way by somneone dear they have lost. One might rather want to be haunted by someone with whom one had a good relationship. Wouldn't you expect your mother's presence, if it occurred, to be kindly and guarding you and the children ?
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.