Our expert says:
No way you're a bad mother --- SHE is a very bad daughter, immature, selfish and ungrateful. She is her owm responsibility, and her kids are her responsibility, too. You may out of sheer huamn kindness wish to provide some care for the kids, but she should never take this for granted. STOP working for her- -- NO cooking, or washing, or ironing, for her. NO food provided for her unless she pays for it. And neither should this latest bf return, nor any other come. If she wants a man in her life, he must be able to support her, or vice versa --- it's not your responsibility. He doesn't sound particularly abusive --- SHe does sound abusive, of you. Give her a deadline to move out. Where, is her concern, not yours. Get your landline locked, so only you can use it, and the same for your internet connection. If she has a cellphone, she must pay her own bills.
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