Our expert says:
He sounds lazy and irresponsible and not fit to be a spouse or father, but he is responsible for helping to pay maintenance for the child he fathered. Go to the Maintenance Court and have it decide how much he should pay and put pressure on him to pay. He sounds far too fussy about jobs, and clearly expects other people to pay his way through life. Presumably he sleeps under a roof, and still eats, so someone must be paying for that. Either he is earning money and not admitting it, or someone is fooolish enough to sponsor him so well he can't be bothered to work.
It is absolutely none of his business whether you choose to marry someon else - he has no claim over you. If he tries to cause problems, get a restraining order against him from a court, to forbid him to do so. And if he disobeys that, he goes to jail.
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