Our expert says:
I dont remember God actually recognizing or recommending Baby Daddy's or Baby Mamas. You're obviously a really nice person, but shouldn't feel sorry for him. A man who impregnates a woman, mistreats her during pregnancy, then forces her to have an abortion, doesn't deserve respect, let alone pity.
Someone who threatens suicide every time you fight is a moral and emotional blackmailer, too. Also not a respectable occupation.
Apparently everything has to be about him, and nobody needs a companion like that. You are well rid of him, and so is your child. He is not fit to be a good father. He sounds about as much of a child as your baby son, with the big difference that your boy will grow up, and become a fine man, and his daddy probably wont.
Cut him out of your life, and get on with your life with the guy who genuinely loves you. Ignore what this little man says. YOu're right about the importance, NOT of "forgiving him" which a foolish idea though popular, but of freeing yourself from the anger and bitterness which at present ties you to him and leaves you vulnerable to further manipulation from him.
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