Our expert says:
It makes sense, doesn't it, to wait until he can find fresh employment and you are, as a family, more secure and able to bring up the child as well as possible. remember you can't just have a baby --- it leads on to having a child, and all that that entails as the child grows up. OK, now your age does play a part in the decision. It is, definitely, wrong to be dishonest with him, and stop taking the pill secretly so as to trap him into impregnating you without knowing it. Your gynae has recommended that you lose weight to improve your chances of pregnancy ( and, I'd think, to enhance the safety of yourself and the baby ) --- why not start, earnestly, on the weight-loss program. And try seeing a counsellor for yourself, but best of all a couples counsellor for the pair of you to examine the pros and cons of the decision. I'd hope he will be successful in finding a job --- I think far too people are expecting economic bliss from the World Cup --- I think that was always an over-optimistic guess, and especially so as the Cup will now be held during the worst international financial melt-down ever.
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