Our expert says:
"Attraction" is never enough to receive serious attention, especially when, as in this case, its a married person feeling "attracted" to someone other than their spouse. Stop chatting to her, and avoid contact except when absolutely required by your job. If you have a lot of time to think and fantasize about kissing her, you're obviously not busy enough in your job - rather take on some extra tasks ( which may impress people and help you get promotion ) and when your thoughts drift to her, go for a walk ( in the opposite direction! ) and maybe call your wife.
Consider personal counselling to work out why you're now feeling so sadly in need of an ego boost by such tantasies, and consider marriage counselling to enhance your marriage.
If you move further into this "attraction", nothing can come of it other than hurt for everyone involved, especially the innocent wife and children and family.
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