Our expert says:
BT, nice to hear from you again, after all this time. The second veteran to appear today !
Sorry to hear of some remaining problems. You seemed to be doing so well when not in contact with the Ex. Good to have gone back to rehab when needed, and to have stayed dry.
You know for sure that the Ex will keep coming back every time you allow him to do so, and that he will stay for as long as you allow him to do so. What happened to the restraining order ?
And especially after he has been so mean towards the child.
And now you say he raped you, after tying you up ? That is criminal, and he should be charged. Talk urgently to POWA or some similar group and plan yet again for your safety and to regain control of your home, and have him permanently excluded from it. POWA may be able to suggest some Safe Houses you could go to temporarily while he gets taken care of legally.
Keep copies of all his nasty messages and SMS, and give copies of the3se to POWA and to your lawyer and the police - and anyone who helps him to control or assault you, or to stop you getting another restraining order, are themselves probably guilty of criminal offenses - what sort of people are they ?
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