Our expert says:
It often happens that there is a decrease in libido after the birth of the children – somehow nature’s way to focus the attention initially on the baby and the baby’s needs. However if it persists it is important to address – as it seems to be the case in your situation. Lack of understanding how men and women respond to and approach sex differently and knowing how to integrate and accommodate it in the relationship often escalates in arguments and frustration as described by you. I would recommend that you seek professional guidance to overcome and resolve the misunderstandings; arguments and assist you to integrate one another’s differences and to find ways to accommodate he differences. Lack of sexual desire often has an underling emotional/communication and appreciation element and it only becomes visible in change in sexual behavior and needs. Before rushing to look for medicine to address the matter – it is more crucial to address the factors that led to the lack of sexual interest and address that as that will have a longer and more sustainable impact.
For further information please consult SASHA’s website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org.
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