Our expert says:
You need to deal with the issues before they reach boiling point. Not when there is so much emotional charge that you boil over. If this relationship is valuable to you and you see it as a possible life long commitment you should consider couple therapy as the two of you need to learn how to communicate. Imago Therapy is one type of intervention that works well. Relationships are about two people. There is little point "fixing" one of you if the other one is still behaving the same way. Sooner or later you too will revert back to old patterns. If your partner isn't interested in therapy you should think hard about whether or not you want to stay with someone who is willing to let you take the fall for your partnership.
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