Our expert says:
Many men are nervous about getting married, at the best of time, and also about the planning of a wedding, so such last-minute jitters aren't uncommon. Sounds like you both over-reacted a bit, under the stress. Why not see a relationship counsellor together ? Seeing your own shrink who knows you, but together, could also be a good idea. And don't worry. Shrinks are used to taking into account that people only talk about their problems, and that there is usually a whole lot also going well, which doesn't need to be talked about.
Don't panic about having encountered some problems. Every person, and every couple, has some problems. If you were convinced you had no problems at all -- THAT would be a bigger problem. The issue is whether you can recognize problems and solve them. You're not doomed as a couple unless you absolutely insist on being doomed.
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