Our expert says:
Are their ANY decent men out there ? Yes, but I am not available.
Seriously, some people, and it sounds as though your husband might be one of them, are what we call Pathological Liars - they lie very often, even when its of no apparent benefit to them, and even when they're bound to be found out. Others are strategic liars - if he lied only to impress women for his own purposes, that was a slightly different form of lie. But none of these lies would be in any way your fault, or responsibility, and you should not allow yourself to feel humiliated by what HE chose to do.
Most frequent liars are basially selfish.
That you've experienced so much bad luck in relationships is not a reflection of a total lack of good people out there, but maybe of a lack of wisdom and skill in picking people with whom to become involved.
Relationships are complex, and as Life says, there are women who behave similarly in how they treat men. There is a human capacity to be deceitful and selfish, and it is not linked to sex or gender.
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