Our expert says:
Shame, she must actually have a very low self-esteem that she feels so desperate to brag about the THINGS she has. As though she may be an awful person, but at least she has expensive gold clubs. Don't worry about her looking down on you --- secretly, she most probably looks down on herself. One might gently say to her that "You know, I'm happy for you if all these posessions being you happiness --- but it's YOU I like, not the things. "
You can be comfortable enough with yourself not to HAVE to have the house made spotless ( by someone else, of course ) ; and you don't have to have your hair titivated to please someone else. YOU have earned and deserved everything you have --- she hasn't. Enjoy your splendid self.
And if she keeps talking about the THINGS she have, switch the conversation to her, herself --- "Mmm, so you've been to many places --- which one did you feel happiest in ? Which of the great places did you find the most disappointing ? Which felt better than you expected ? "
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