Our expert says:
What a lot of energy and joy he wastes ! Brooding for days after even a significant argument over something real and important, is silly and unprofitable ; doing so after getting upset about something trivial, is very silly indeed.
Stop trying to please him. Choose a relatively calm time and tell him, calmly and pleasantly, what you said here, that you feel completely unable to please him, and would rather give up trying until the pair of you can sort things out with expert help. YOu don't mention where you live / work, but do check with FAMSA and your local facilities, as there may well be someone within reach of you.
Heart makes an excellent point about how many men are less able to handle emotional concerns and stress ( perhaps at work ) and may lash out in despair, such that it SOUNDS as though it's all about you, but in fact it's more like you're a lightning rod, collecting his dischange of electricity.
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