Our expert says:
What I am about to say may well make you angry.
From the example you quote, you do seem to be getting far too angry about very trivial issues. Few of us could afford to go out past 11 pm during thr working week, and calling a friend that late simply for the utterly trivial reason of wantin her to listen over the phone to a piece of music, is indeed selfish and thoughtless.
I am of the Old school of social customs hat says after 7 or 8 in the evening, you don;'t call ANYONE except in the event of a genuine emergency. And many people are similar - a late night call is alarming, sugesting something awfuyl has happened to someone. Not just that someone tipsy has heard a tune they fancy.
And this poor woman is newly married ? She might have something FAR nicer to be doing than answering calls late at night !
Wait till you have cooled down, and next time you meet with her (early in the day !) have a chat and agreem on mutual rules about timing and causes of such calls, so you can both feel satisfied.
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