Our expert says:
The fact that you think she will be angry tells me that she must have said things in the past that tell you she will not consent. The majority of ladies will not consent to anal sex. If she does not want it, you can try other types of sexual activity. It may be that the idea of anal sex is in fact what is stimulating (to you), and so if this is the case, possibly try and masturbate around her anus or clamp your penis between the cheeks of her bottom to provide the friction - whilst it's not quite anal sex, it may be exciting and a reasonable compromise.
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