Our expert says:
Many couples explore anal sex, both where the man may anally penetrate his partner using his fingers, penis or sex toy and where his partner may anally pentrate him using her fingers or sex toy.
What is important is basic cleanliness, anal douching and using lots of water based lube.
Anal douching helps remove faecal product at the bottom of the bowel. Lube helps facilitate smooth non friction penetration and thrusting. It is important to take things slow at first so that the anal sphincter gets used to the sensation of being penetrated and then relaxes in a graded way. The anal sphincter is not under our voluntary control so need to be slowly stimulated to relax around that which is being used for penetration.
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