Our expert says:
Obviously, what he can say is No, even if politely. These other folks don't have a RIGHT to ASSUME they can always drop in when it suits them. Be warned, this is probably the shape of things to come if you proceed towards marriage, unless you can resolve this between you.
Are there other areas and examples where he behaves like a pushover ? Discuss it together, and consider couples counselling, to find a better resolution.
And to return to your question : "Am I unreasonable or Oddly Anit-social??? " the answer is no. No more than I am !
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