Our expert says:
He sounds like a highly selfish and irresponsible guy. If his family suddenly wwants some ceremony involving the child, not only should this have been discussed with you long ago, but they should bear all the costs of it, if you are willing to take part at all.
Is he paying maintenance for his child ? If not, why not ? Maybe suggest to him that you're planning a maintenance ceremony in the Maintenance court, and he may want to contribute to those expenses ?
For you to be furious at his feble atitude is entirely understandable, and nothing to blame yourself for. Just tell him you and your child have no need of suh a ceremony, let alone for any such expenses, and that you won't be bailing him out again. If the ceremony protects against such problems later in life, maybe he needs it himself
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