Our expert says:
Its a shame, isn't it that so many people are just plain nosy, rather than havin any genuine desire to help others. Tell your aunt and her daughter that as they have never previously shown any interest in viiting and seeing you, there's no need for them to start now ; and anyway you will be too busy attending to yourself and your pregnancy to be able to spend time entertaining them.
Your gran is WRONG - you can stop ANYONE from visiting any time you want to - it is your home and you are the boss. And if people insist on visiting against your wishes, you can call the police to remove them.
I entirely agree with your views which would indeed be best for you and for the children. You're not in the least selfish. If anyone genuinely cares about you, they would want to isit only if and when it suited and benefitted YOU, not their idle curiosity. If they want to look at something strange, they should rather look in the mirror.
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