Our expert says:
Maybe it'd be a good idea to "help" him with his finances, if by that he means look into them and advise him on how to manage them --- NOT if he wants you, without a real committment on his side, to help him PAY for either his debts or his mom's house. It is not a good sign at all if he had other plans, and debts of R 35 ooo, without telling you about them. He may be taking advantage of you. You need to discuss this carefully and thoroughly together.
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