Our expert says:
SOunds like a largely false issue --- to tell your mom who is at hand and then call the gf should please any good friend, who should be pleased, anyhow, that you got a good job. It sounds as though her concern is indeed exagerated, and as though she is a VERY high maintenance woman who may be hard to ever satisfy. Her responses to the two events you quote are highly unreasonable. Its not about placing her second, but about her being potentially insatiable. And to expect you to "learn a leson" is cheeky. Let her have all the time apart she wants, and rather concentrate on whether you need the endless bickering this pattern of behaviour suggests will
be your future with her. I agree with Maria's diagnosis --- imature, selfish, unappreciative, and self-centred.
Do NOT expect a long happy relationship with her unless and untill she goes for fairly prolonged counselling / therapy to sort out her neuroses. She should not expect constant reassurance and grooming and compliments. Leave her to grow up, until she is ready for a real relationship with someone else
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