Our expert says:
As you're probably the only person who consistently watches you eat, it's a little odd for you to ask me whether you are over-eating. But actually nothing in your message seems to be about actually eating !
Sounds like your friend is trapped in an unhelpful pattern of automatic negative thinking, which even if understandable if he's had a raw deal, isn't at all helpful to him getting a job and a satisfying relationship.
As you know, in relationships its helpful not to be TOO picky, but its important to be picky enough. Its fair for you to objectively assess whether this particular relationship is of value to you, and unnecessary to "struggle" to convince yourself that it is. If struggle is needed, then it isn't.
Are you (perhaps this was your question ) over-reacting ? No. Maybe you're under-reacting ?
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