Our expert says:
The fantasies, in an important sense,are not about him in reality, but about a fantasy lover who looks like him, and maybe the gross inappropriateness of his real life position adds to the attractiveness of the idea. best see a counsellor to understand better in what ways you are feeling unfulflled, and how to rather enrich your real marriage than get lost in fantasies that are at best non-productive, and at worst could cause awful damage to you, your husband and children, and potentially to him, and his wife and children.
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