Our expert says:
YOu're never nasty just becaue someone ( with their own sour potivations ) says so --- any more than a villain becomes marvellous just because his lawyer says he is !
Do be cautious about trapping yourself in the language you use. You say " I could not forget my husband". You don't know that. You know that you DID not orget him, but that's different, and declaring it an impossibility makes it harder to achieve. Your story reminds us of why we always advise folks to be cautious about rebound romances, about relationships based on one's temporary ( though it feels permanent ) neediness after a divorce or break-up. Accept and celebrate the fact that you don't have to have a man in your life in order to be wholem good, and worthy. In time, you may well feel interested i a new relationshiop, and it will work better if this is when you are open to it but not desperately needing it nor desperately rejecting it. You're not bad for trying to comfort yourself. But don't glue yourself to absolutes about never allowing anyone else in your life. We are not designed to have only one love in our lives, but take your time for it to happen.
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