Our expert says:
Eish, I.m hardly an expert in dream men. Come to think of it, I'm not even a dream man myself !
When you say you men DM "last February" - do you mean February 2009 or 2010 ? If this year, who'd obviously not know each other well enough to make such a decision or arrangement. But if you have known him for over a year, you should know each other. It makes sense to be cautious, but as you seem to recognize, you are catastrophizing, somehow expecting the very worst possibilities raoe, desertion and mayhem. IS he really the sort of guy who could realisticaly do any of those things ?
I wonder if you aren't as a background rather anxious and pessimistic, maybe even depressed, to think so easily of such awful things, and to find them so emotionally convincing. Maybe some personal counselling sessions could help to get things back into proportion ?
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