Our expert says:
If he has fears he needs to get over, he should see a counsellor and get to work on tjhis project. There's no point in simply sitting round waiting for the end of his fears to be brought to his doorstep by a courier.
And if he refuses to discuss where this relationship is going, it is not going anywhere.
Sounds like he's probably comfortable with things as they are, and doesn't have the energy to move forward, with you or anyone else
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