Our expert says:
It may not be useful or accurate to make assumptions about how he felt about you all along, on the basis of how he behaves after you have broken up. That's like assessing how well a car ran by examining the wreckage after an accident.
There are few if any rules about conduct after a relationship is over. If you EXPECT him to call for your birthday, is the relationship really over ? And you say you're not really talking - but your're bothered by one occasion when he didin't talk to you ?
This is not about "men" but about people, and they differ in their behaviours and expectation.
You dont't say how and why the relationship ended, or what it had to do with love, so its hard to evaluate how realistic your expectations were and are
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