Our expert says:
Amazing how many really reasonable people come here to ask me if the're being unreasonable !
Why can't this guy spend time wioth you AND his son ? The baby momma is required to give the child reasonable access to his dad, and should not object to whether or not you are there. You are quite right to hesitate to marry him before such issues are solved. If you were to marry him, the child would need to get to know and like you anyway, and vice-versa. Discuss your concerns with him and explore alternative solutions together
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