Our expert says:
Funny, perhaps, but I have never ever had a selfish person ask me that question.
Presumably even if your husband qualifies to inherit the house, it remains his dad's until then, so I'm not clear about why you would need to live with his dad and step-mom, unless it is beause building the extension would be a saving in not having the addditional cost of the land. It could be precarious to have a home you built at your expense, on land belonging to someone else, though, couldn't it ? I dont see anything a all selfish in being reluctant to live with his father, a step-mother you don't like, and his brother. It is entirely reasonsable for any married coupld to want privacy and their own space.
You mention being Indian, and though that maty slightly influence the situation, mainl through what others in the family and community might expect of you, what you two both need and want is universal and reasonable
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