Our expert says:
Hi BT - lets hope we all have a better 2011 than the 2010 we had.
One ca miss even folks that caused us pain - maybe missing the good parts within them, maybe just the usual dificulty of breaking bad habits.
THAT's the " odd not having him around" part.
Nothing you say about the new guy sounds at all promising. Sometimes you leap into a mnew relationship with someone clearly unsuitable, because you fear being alone in a relationship with yourself, or want to avoid the fulfilling work of getting to know and like yourself and to enjoy your own company.
As he sems to push your riskier buttons, and uses sex and alcohol to ensnare you, that's BAD and worth getting out of before you get deeper into it. You know the alcohol is bad for every aspect of your life, and interferes with any other form of treatment
Stop giving him "another chance". He sounds more sinister, more of a stalker than a safe or ultimately good companion. Move on safely.
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.