Our expert says:
When an encounter is assumed to be about romance, bringing up money usually lowers the temperature. But maybe it depends on how you said it - if he is spending weekends with you, and expecting you to pay for any additional costs ( what are these ? Extra food ? presumably the rest of your expenses would be identical ) is not unreasonable to ask if he can contribute towards such expenses. But were you asking for extra costs caused by his visit ( surely if he took you out for a meal, he'd have paid for it ? Or were you asking for help to get through your normal month on your normal budget, in which case it was far more unwise and unhelpful
Gold-diggers usually dig much deeper, and expect a whole lot more gold than that.
Maria's sugegstion makes sense - call him, and say you're sorry if your comment bothered him, as that wasn't your intention. Maybe you could explore whether its convenient for him to visit with you, and whether maybe it'd suit him better for you to visit him, if he wants to see you at all ?
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