Our expert says:
In my years of experience, bad people never ask anyone if they're a bad person. Sounds like your company is badly organized --- if someone needs to be sacked, this should be done by their boss --- the HR person should be there to help advise the person about how best to cope with that situation, not to serve as the bad guy and to collect all the flak. And make it entirely clear to the angry people that you don't decide on firings, and merely convey the mesage because the person firing them doesn't have the guts to face them. If your salary is half the going rate presumably you're energetically looking for another and safer as well as better paying post. Meanwhile, acpt your raise as very well worth it. 'BF's mom should be grateful for the help you give her, and not fiddle with your things, indeed she shouldn't need to visit your home at all.
Dancing needn't be expensive if you dance in your own place and to your own music !
And whoever said you had a Cinderella COmplex was just showing off, and shouldn't receive any attention at all.
I agree enirely with Maria that you lack any genuine bf --- he is indeed a child with benefits, and probably exploiting you. Time for him to earn his own keep and look after his own mother. Leave him behind in the dust, you desrve so very much more
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