Our expert says:
Frikkie – you are a normal man! Men require – on average- sex 3 times more often than women – this is something that needs to be sorted out early in a relationship or it will cause huge problems .If you insist on your needs – she feels abused. If you with her needs- you feel denied. There is to change what is basic physiology with chemicals and hormones that will have their own problems in the long term.
Also worth remembering is that men and women are VERY different in what sex means to them.
Men give love because they receive sex first. Women give sex because they receive love first.
That just the way the sexes are made and neither of you can help that. Find a way around it that is mutally acceptable without either party feeling deprived ( her current solution is immature and unreasonable)
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